wat 2 do

Hi ladies
Just an issue i have been facing pretty much since i was a lil girl. I have always been attracted to girls but i have only been in relationships with guys. I have had a few lady partners and love it but my issue is now im with a guy he is the father to my 3 kiddies BUT i feel im not attracted to men anymore. I only get turned on by women. i have tried to talk to him about it but ive been so confused myself that it only confuses him more and we end up fighting. so what im trying to say is does anyone have any ideas on how i can figure out if im a lesbian????? or if anyone knows of any places i can ring or go onto the website to figure out stuff....

Seisha

Posted: 23-Aug-2009

Re: wat 2 do

No-one on the end of a phone or the other side of a computer screen is going to check boxes and say 'yep, you're a lesbian'. This is a journey you need to take yourself and a decision you'll ultimately make for yourself. I'd suggest a good counsellor may help you by walking the journey beside you. The thing is 'FEAR' can stand for Face Everything And (be) Real or f**k Everything And Run. The choice is yours.

good luck.

Posted: 23-Aug-2009

Re: wat 2 do

aw honey, i feel terrible for you.  the situation ur facing sucks.  but nobody other than u can know if u are a lesbian.  te issue seems to not only b your sexuality, but the fact that u can't talk to your partner.  that in itself is something that no relationship can withstand.  

if u are having sexual identity problems, and are uncomfortable with your relationship you might want take a step back and review your life decisions.    if u need to talk u can contact me!


sincerely Presley

Posted: 11-Dec-2009