Confused.

I am so confused about myself I am a female but I don't feel it I don't feel comfortable with myself and I have no idea what to do about it I want to talk to my gf about it but I am worried about scaring her off.
I see myself as a boy but have no idea how to talk to my gf about it.  

Posted: 25-Feb-2010

Re: Confused.

Hi darling,

Contact The Gender Centre 9569 2366 and ask to speak to Gaye .. free counselling over at Petersham. Hope this helps. Your not alone xx

Posted: 25-Feb-2010

Re: Confused.

Thank you.
I will call them it will be good to talk to someone about it.

Posted: 25-Feb-2010

Re: Confused.

Hi Lady-Love

Just wanna say (in case you don't know ) there are others on this site who have been or are in the same place you are in - i suggest you have a search through the forums/threads/posts to find them and read what they have to say - otherwise, im sure they will eventually respond to this thread.

I wish there was support like the Gender Centre available when my bio male best friend desperately wanted to be a female - he felt/identified/lived and breathed as female but was just so stuck.  

Travel well...

~Aquarius xx

Posted: 25-Feb-2010

Re: Confused.

Squaw hon, may I ask you----

Is your friend not with us anymore?

Don't mean to intrude, but from what you typed there.....

Posted: 25-Feb-2010

Re: Confused.

No intrusion Chief --- very perceptive of you - he very sadly took his own life... a seriously talented, artistic Taurean, with a sense of humour that would take anyone out of a dark mood, and style that blew people away... xx

Posted: 25-Feb-2010

Re: Confused.

Cool!! Sounds like a super person, who obviously meant a great deal to you.
Soo sorry for your loss-

And thanks for answering.

I think it's also cool of you to remember him to others. Thanks-x

Posted: 25-Feb-2010

Re: Confused.

Scorp it is sad to hear that. I guess we are lucky in the day n age that we have all these services that help up.
I know I am glad to be able to come on here n just express myself it does feel good to get things off a persons mind

Posted: 25-Feb-2010

Re: Confused.

I just resigned as the Case Manager at The Gender Centre and reccomend the service to anyone who is transgendered and/or has gender issues.

All I can say is give them a call. They have all the contacts available to human kind lol ... Get in contact with Gaye (fantastic counsellor) and all there services are FREE.

There is a weekly (every wednesdays from 6-8pm) get together. The address is 7 Bent Street, Petersham. All range of ages and all walks of life. Free dinner too! And free annual BBQ's.

Seriously, check them out on the net or call. Do yourself a favor. I know how difficult and lonely it would be.
But remember to never give up hope and that there are MANY (more then you realise) out there who are.have.will be going through the same identity crisis as you. Perhaps even take your gf along.

Love to you all

Bliss xxxx

Posted: 25-Feb-2010

Re: Confused.

Thank you violet I will be checking them out.

Posted: 26-Feb-2010

Re: Confused.

Hey lady-love

Wanted to see how you're doing and if you've managed to have a chat to someone? The Gay and Lesbian Switchboard is also useful and there are some awsome sites and people to talk to too - as you've probably found on here

Hope all is good

Posted: 27-Mar-2010